DRIFTING
Hey everyone.
Today, I was just thinking, reading and listening to God. I wanted to do something different with the blog. Hope it helps you. I want to share some verses and thoughts from Revelation chapter 2. If you can, read them. If you have time this week, read the book of First John. Amazing stuff.
Isn't it easy to allow a relationship that was once passionate to 'drift'? Relationships are won and lost with this basic principle. The 'drift' happens so slowly. In a marriage, things can be going so well. One choice leads to a little less focus, a little less attention, a little less love, and then you end up in a place you never planned on being.
How many marriages can start out so passionate, so excited, so self-denying, so serving, and then the drift begins. It is so subtle, and so deadly, and yet so fixable.
The times in my marriage that I have stopped being intentional in spending time with Michelle, or putting other things above her have been the moments where I started 'drifting' the most.
It is easy to 'drift' in our relationship with God. So easy. Jesus speaks about a church that 'drifted' from it's First Love. I promise spiritual drifting is the easiest thing to do and the toughest thing sometimes to see. Subtle things are that way.
Check these verses out in Revelation chapter 2:
"To the angel[a] of the church in Ephesus write:
These are the words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand and walks among the seven golden lampstands: I know your deeds, your hard work and your perseverance. I know that you cannot tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but are not, and have found them false. You have persevered and have endured hardships for my name, and have not grown weary. Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first." (Revelation 2:1-5)
Here is the church in Ephesus. The capitol of Asia Minor. One of the three most influential cities in the eastern part of the Roman Empire. So much going for it. Economically, financially, positionally in the world, YET it missed everything and Jesus indicts the church for it's 'drift' factor.
He commends them for their deeds, hard work, perseverance, staying true to the Gospel, suffering and not quitting. To the Ephesican church, Paul commends them for their love for God and others (Ephesians 1:15). They did so much right and missed everything. It wasn't what they 'did' but what they had 'become' that had brought the letter in the first place. They allowed 'drift' to win.
I wonder how many Christ followers end up there? I hate that there have been times in my life where I have left and even replaced my first 'love' or other things. I wish these verses weren't in the Bible, but here they are, and here we are, and all I can do is be real with myself, with God and take whatever steps necessary to change. Who we are isn't who we can become.
Can I be honest? I really hope you hear my heart on this. I have seen so many people fall in love with God, believe in Jesus, receive the free gift of eternal life, only to get bored, discouraged, tired and slip away from their relationship with God.
Fortunately, reality isn't the end of the story, but the promise of a new beginning and a new hope and a new love.
The steps to RETURNING are so easy:
1. Be REAL with God if you have slipped in your faith. You have 'forsaken' your first love. Be real in seeing what is true about where you are right now. Has anything or anyone replaced your love? A job, finances, worry, family? So many things can cause us to 'drift.' It is for me often good things that replace the best things. With God, you can't fake him out, so just be real. Tell Him. He already knows. These were mostly second generation Christians who were losing their zeal and passion for God. How are you doing really??
2. REMEMBER. Remember the height from which you have fallen. In other words, go back to the day when you realized that you could not begin to make it to God on your own. Remember how much you have been forgiven. Remember how much you didn't deserve to be forgiven. Remember what He has done. Remember How loved you are. Remembering that establishes the basis for which your relationship rests. I am the forget guy. I forget, I start thinking I deserve. This is the sin of entitlement. You are saved by Grace, loved intensely by God. REMEMBER IT.
3. REPENT. Repent of anything that has gotten in the way of your relationship with God. An attitude of pride, judgement, or any other thing. Repent of actions that have not honored God. Sins not confessed always strain a relationship. Why would it be different with God? Just recognize it, admit it and repent of it. Repenting is going in a new direction.
4. RETURN. He closes with "do the things you did at first." Return to do what you did when you first came to Christ. This is both an active (action) thing as well as an attitude (passion) thing. What are those things? Is it reading Scripture? Is it prayer? Is it Life Group (some of the best growth times in my life have been in the context of small groups) Do whatever it will take to restore your heart, passion and love for God.
Bottom Line: Drifting is the easiest thing to do, the hardest thing to recognize and the most important thing to fix. Your faith depends on it.
I just wanted to share what God is showing me.
Hope your week is going well.
I am excited about the weekend. I am shooting a video part of the day Friday. Also, quickly. Thanks to our campus pastors. I met with them today, and am so excited about what God is doing and so proud of them for their love for God and people.
God is doing so much, but if we miss Him, don't we miss everything?? I choose to not drift.....
That's it.
john


