The Bible has SO much to say about words.
I have been thinking alot and speaking less for the last 10 or so days. Not because I wanted to but because my voice hasn't "worked" very well. I am better, but my voice still isn't "there" yet.
I think so often, we don't stop to really appreciate the things God has done in our lives or gives us to use or enjoy. For 10 days, at first I thought how I have never been this sick, like I was throwing my own little party. Then, as the week progressed, I started thinking about how blessed I have been in my life. Words always matter. They always heal the people around us or they can be used as weapons to hurt those same people that matter to us and God. We are all products of words to very large degrees. I am not sure we quite get how much words matter. At least I don't and thought a blog devotional may help us.
This verse is a powerful thought and carries with it eternal ramifications.
"The tongue has the power of life and death..." Proverbs 18:21
Confession. Prior to this week, as a speaker or pastor I have never really thought about or NEVER thanked God for the gift of talking. The ability to use words and speak into people's lives. Out of necessity, I have, this week thought more about my words. What to say, what not to say, what I can say with the least amount of words, etc.
Check it out. The Bible has a lot to say about words.
Jesus said in Matthew 12:37, "For whatever is in your heart determines what you say..."
Like in many areas, we so often are sorry for what we "say" and what we ought to be about is getting beyond the spoken word and get to the words in our heart. Figuring out why we say what we say will ultimately and more permanently change what we say. Jesus reminds us that what we say reveals what is in our heart. Your mouth is simply the exit point for what was already there. When people say, "Where did that come from?", Jesus would say, "from your heart." He was speaking, rather frustrated actually, to the religious leaders who were so about how good they looked and how others could never measure up. This was one of those times you see Jesus really really not cool with stuff.
What words come from our mouth? When people say, "I just speak what's on my mind", first of all no, you speak what's IN your heart and secondly, why would you brag about that?
So often, we think we will try harder and not be angry. I met a person at our Longview campus this last Sunday who boldly admitted how he was angry and wanted to change how he acted and what he said to those he loved. I loved his heart and it was a privilege to pray for him, but my prayer was that God would reveal why he was angry.
Anger (for example) is always a secondary emotion. When you unpack it, and get to the "heart" of it you find out that every time you are experiencing anger, you are either hurt, frustrated or fearful. If I don't change the source, I won't change the outcome. I have to change how I think, allow the Spirit of God to cleanse my heart, to confess what isn't good, to see different and then the outcome will naturally change. It is for sure a process. Trust me.
Another one is sarcasm. I can be so careless sometimes. Really hate that about me and the words I say to people I would in reality die for. Sarcasm comes from a Greek word "sarkasmos" which means to tear flesh.
Heck, maybe we will have a whole blog series on words. So much to say... carefully....
To start with, let's make a commitment to talk less. Talking less was the thing that made me think about all of this. For me, it wasn't because I thought about it, it was because God allowed my voice to almost be coughed out of my body.
If you talk less, you will sin less.
Proverbs 10:19 says, "When words are many, sin is not absent."
Did you know that every day we speak enough words to make up a 50-60 page book? The average person speaks around 18,000 words per day. That makes up a library of books in a year, 100 books a year with 200 pages each. They say that most people by default talk too much. Like in fact 35% too much. Talk less, sin less.
Maybe we should just let this first "words" talk sink in. Maybe we should think more and talk less. Maybe before we go angrily into a conversation with our teenagers we should stop to think about where they are coming from. To think about the words we want to say and process them more through the grid is this what Jesus would say.
Maybe?
I think when we realize that our words have the power to bring life or death and we think about the ways we have helped each other or hurt each other, we can have a sobering wake up call to the power of our words.
Let's do this. How about getting real and practical? TODAY. Let's talk less and think more. Let's make this blog pact together today for our words to be used to change lives. Words bring healing and life or death and pain. When you allow that to sink in, it just may change you enough to begin the process. As we continue to learn, and unlearn, we will over time begin the slow process of being more strategic, intentional and life-giving with our words.
I have thought more about what I should say, what I shouldn't say, and in some cases what I haven't said. That has been the big 10 day lesson for me.
So, as God leads you, why not encourage the rest of us? Your stories become things we can share together.